Lately, my partner and I have been using porn videos as a way to spark some new ideas for our own time together. We’ll watch something and then talk about what we liked or what we thought was a bit too "over the top." It’s been a really fun way to explore our fantasies without any pressure. It’s turned a solitary habit into a shared experience that has actually brought us closer. Have any of you used adult media as a "brainstorming tool" like this, and how did you bring it up with your partner for the first time?
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Caught this thread while I was looking for the site's "General Announcements." It’s a very relatable topic—most of us have definitely changed how we use the internet as we’ve gotten older. The shift from secrecy to openness seems to be a common theme here, which is heartening to see. I’m mostly just checking in to see if there are any upcoming site events, but I enjoyed reading through these posts. It’s a very grounded and respectful community you guys have here. I’m going to go get some work done now, but I hope the conversation stays this positive. Take care!